Most sex is wet and lubricated. The friction of the penis on the vagina is what causes women to have orgasms. However, it is entirely possible to have dry sex and have orgasms without putting the penis in a vagina. That is how it is for women. Many men enjoy the sensation of their penis being rubbed all over a lubricated and very sensitive body.

It is true that the walls of the vagina will tear more easily if a penis is not being inserted all the way. This tearing is a part of the natural process of getting older. Your body adapts to the aging process by strengthening the immune system, sometimes called further strengthening of the skin. Of course, if you go through surgeries to have your reproductive parts removed, like hysterectomy, there is the risk of having health problems as a side effect. Such procedures can also affect one’s ability to have orgasms.

There is a special class of surgery called vaginal rejuvenation surgery. This procedure is about tightening the vaginal walls as well as the nearby nerves and muscles. This brings back heightened sexual feeling, as the nerves and muscles are tightened to accommodate the penis. The lips of the vagina also get thinner and fewer wrinkles, as the skin tightens as it adjusts to its new size. After some weeks, the increased blood flow and lubrication results in a gradually slimmer and more youthful appearance. After two to six weeks, there is a noticeable difference in the look of the skin. The discomfort may be lessened a bit, and the woman might even feel some slight pain or discomfort in the vaginal area. This is where the majority of women stop having sex after hysterectomy. The discomfort is often overcome with conservation. However, some women continue to have the procedure, even though they are no longer considered to be in their best health. There is a waiting list for cosmetic surgery, so those who are low on the list might be a little pushed to the side.

There are other methods of foreplay that can help a woman to reach orgasm if she has trouble getting there with just the penis. Relaxation and not using any fingers or toes are recommended. Foreplay can be done with various positions, from the missionary position to the doggie style. The idea is to get the body used to the sensations. With time and variation, the body will adjust to the new motions and sensations. When the body does this, the orgasms get better. The orgasms get better because the body learns what to expect. This helps the body teach itself what to expect during sex so it can get better results.

There are many ways to help with the process. Use the time to learn about the body and learn what to expect. Use water based lubricant to help reduce friction and reduce chaffing. Slowly build up the tension and the stimulation in the body. Breathe deeper during sex to allow the body more relaxed and orgasmic. Also, there is some clinical evidence that holding off on having sex until the hour of intercourse can help heighten the orgasm. The body reaches a critical state of orgasm around 12 am Eastern Standard Time (EST). Best times to have sex are after 12 am, as the sensitive body senses the pleasure and energy generated that hour.

Sex tips focus on both the physical and the emotional aspects of having better sex. The difference is that women can have multiple orgasms with only a slight amount of stimulation while men can have just one major orgasm. That one orgasm can come in a variety of ways, from kissing to simple stroking of the genitals. With this knowledge in mind, it is suggested that stamina is the main factor in having better sex. Staying power is necessary for many positions, and for most actions. Keeping the body guessing as to what is to come is exciting and keeps the action flowing. Games helps the body to relax and enters a psychological state where it can easily reach the desired level of ecstasy.