How do you achieve a Tantra orgasm?
The word Tantra means to expand, to weave, to liberate. In other words to feel and explore freedom in our own spirituality and sexuality. We all want to be liberated and to be more intimate with our selves.
Tantra was not originally a “class” in a school. It is a set of teachings and practices that originated in India more than 5000 years ago and spread to other civilizations. The earliest declarations of Tantra date from the 1st century AD.
We know that in the West, the development of Tantra languished for sometime. It was rediscovered by psychologists who analyzed human behavior and personality types and also those suffering from addictions. Tantra therapists use all natural approaches to try to cure human suffering.
Some of the basic teachings of Tantra can be adapted to the practice of meditation. Among Tantric religions there are those that require abstinence from sexual intercourse. Amongst other things, the withdrawal from desire is considered to be a superior form of self-discipline.
The achievement of Tantra orgasm is not the only way ofaining its powerful rejuvenating effects. Another result of involving oneself in the rites of Tantra is that the person’s whole being is renewed. It is to rejuvenate the inner being that we want to enter the Sacred Space that we first need to clear our heads.
Most Western concepts of spirituality imply a separate realm for the soul, a plane apart from the world of senses in which the individual is alone. Many of the concepts of Tantra, however, do not mesh with this philosophy. Hence, you could be spiritually separate but physically conjoined to someone.
The inseparable quality of Tantra from its spirituality is its ability to help us grow. This might sound difficult but it is about sensitivity. Most of us do not really notice when we are detach from our senses or attached to some other person. We are generally too busy with our work, family, and hobbies. However, the trap is deeper.
Tantra asks us to single out a moment – whether it is an hour, day, or week – when we are busy and lonely. The Additional benefit is that the environment of the place has an effect on our energy.ilies and perfumes instill a charm in the environment that makes us feel special and cared for. So, in a way, our whole house becomes a haven for meditation and self-pleasuring.
The result is the rejuvenation of the individual psyche. Tantra sessions around the hearth can instill great amounts of vitality and help us understand the roots of our self-doubt and insecurity. By the time we leave our tantra teacher’s presence, we will have taken a small step toward the understanding of who we are as human beings.
However, this is just the beginning. The flexibility of who we are is greater than the understanding of who we are. This understanding is a wonderful starting point for our spiritual journey. Tantra is indeed a powerful path, but it needs furtherentryinto the psyche to progress. This is contextually very important. The reactive part of our summary involves all that we are and are doing in this life. The proactive part involves all that we know about our self and its related desires and fears.
Relationship is at the forefront of our contentment, self-esteem, and anxiety. It is from here that our judgments about others appear. We may think that we know something about them, but the true self is still a mystery. Perhaps this is the reason why passivity is such a common part of human sexual expression.
When the demands of everyday life begin to impinge upon our personal space, our sexual desires can wane. Likewise, our self-esteem and confidence – our sexual attractor – can wane. These are parts of ourselves that we do not fully understand or are not able to fully appreciate. Even sexual pleasure is not the most important aspect of our life. Most of us are too caught up in the multitude of responsibilities and worries to really enjoy the beauty of sex.
Sex is more than the satisfaction of an itch. It is the attitude towards life that creates the excitement and intrigue that attracts us to our lovers. It is the enthusiasm of being in love and the development of our intimate relationships that keeps our bodies and souls in harmony.
Relationship is a major stage in our sexual evolution. The feelings that begin here fester and eat away at our attitude to life gradually andractedly until they seep underneath the surface of our conscious behavior and affect our daily relations. These inner relationships are the conversations that we have with ourselves.
Being explicit with our inner relationships and talking about them openly is necessary to maintaining our health. These are the conversations that help us to discover our inner masterpiece, that holds our secrets and that shaped us.
