If you listen to the popular media then you’ll be led to believe that being a player or a pick up artist is the way to get girls. And you can use this knowledge to make women attracted to you. But is this the truth?

If all you do is drink, smoke and act like a player you’ll only meet women that want to uses you for sex aka “friendship”. In this article I will reveal the main reasons why being a player or pick up artist doesn’t work for women.

Reason 1: Since players only meet women at bars and clubs it doesn’t make sense financially:

If you make $500,000 a year as a player how can you afford to spend that kind of money on dating someone for a year. You can’t. So if you want to live the Fancy life of a player you’ll have to earn it like any other job. But if you want to date an attractive woman for a year or two then it’s completely acceptable.

Reason 2: The lifestyle of a player is not much different from that of a “real” man:

When a woman says she wants to meet a real man she means a man who has a good work ethic, gets involved in politics, enjoys growing his own food, doesn’t live in his parents basement, has a well paying job, and enjoys traveling the world. A player probably will remain single for a long time but will meet a lot of women.

Reason 3: There are too many issues with the way that a player acts:

If you meet a woman one night it’s not a man who’s talking to you but rather a woman who’s talking to you because she wants a good time. A normal guy would introduce you to a girl but if you’re a player you’ll take her to some seedy bar. We’ll see how that works.

Reason 4: There are not enough attractive women looking for men:

Most of the players are alpha males who are confident they can get women looking for men. If you are an average guy who can’t get yourself to approach women then most of your life you’ll spend as lonely as a monk. Don’t worry if you’re shy. You can work on it.

Reason 5: A player doesn’t take rejection seriously:

If you’re a player you won’t take it seriously. If a girl does not show any interest you can try again using different methods. And all this time you have to keep your confidence up because women can tell when you’re nervous. So my advice is for you to get yourself to approach women but if in the second or third time you get turned down than move on because it just means it’s not the right time.

Reason 6: Most players don’t know how to have a relationship:

It takes time to build a relationship but it also takes time to break one. Though most players know how to have a relationship but life is too short to sit at home playing video games all weekend. You must get out and be social.

Reason 7: A player is in more need of having a good time:

Most players are in need of a good time. They want to be in an environment where they are treated like a star. And this does not necessarily mean spending all the money they make. They do a lot of joking and laughing. This creates a comfortable environment where everyone is at ease. They do a lot of teasing.

Reason 8:Workaholic:

A player has a lot of work to do and this has less room for a relationship. They have to focus all their attention to work and work alone. If you’re a workaholic this doesn’t work for you as you’ll always have to time trial your’stellingwomen retired early because you get too involved with work.

Reason 9: Jerks don’t offer good reasons for getting together:

Because a jerk usually has aReady toAim and Ready toPay attitude it’s hard for a woman to believe he wants a relationship. He meets a woman, makes small talk, chats her up for a few minutes and then he moves on. A player is in constant demand so he can work on his material.

Reason 10: Too Soon to Know: A player is in constant demand and has too much going on already. He meets a woman, makes small talk, chats her up for a few minutes and then he has to go. If you’re a player then you have to work a lot harder to get into a relationship because women have a lot more suitors than players.

In this article, I have revealed the top ten reasons why a player will never get a serious relationship. By fixing these ten problems, you will be able to have the relationship you want from women.