The first date will set the tone of your relationship. If you avoid the wrong things, you can take advantage of the good things it brings. In fact, avoid the very things that the girl believes are mistakes and success.

I think its safe to assume that everyone has done it, most of us have probably done it at some point in our lives. What is important to remember is what not to do, and what to do. As you are getting dressed for the date, take note of the following steps, and put them into action one by one:

1. Never wear new shoes or sport a completely new outfit. She will assume that you have done some progress when you walk with her out to the venue. The venue is not a dress rehearsal. Do not be late. It is a date, not a special evening with friends. At the end of the evening you will have to make sure that both of you are off to kiss. If you must carry her bag, do not complain about it being too heavy. If you need assistance with her coat or a guitar pick, don’t do it. People will assume that you are overcompensating. A good way to end the night would be with a happy hour cocktail at the bar. If you enjoy having sex on the first date, then that is your prerogative. Just do not expect anything more that a regular night out to you.
2. Never talk about your health problems. This will make you appear to be very negative, and you will not sell yourself. Lack of enthusiasm and expectancy are much worse than the truth. Let people forget your problems around you, not mention their interest. Nobody wants to hear how your parents are bit speeding or something else that bothers you. The subject is the girls tonight, and you have to act as if you are not worried at all. If you are worried, admit it and tell them so they will understand.
3. Never discuss religion or politics on the first date. It’s just a complete cop out, and frankly, the girl should not expect you to be able to change her mind once she is out with you. Nor should you discuss your sexual prowess. Your first impression represents everything. Also, you might make an entire fetish out of it. Girls generally do not care about such things as much as guys do. So there goes that.
4. Never have sex on the first date. It is never a good idea, and you want nothing to go wrong. Save it for a later time. The idea is to get to know her better, not jump into the sack. Also, the most basic element of a good relationship has got to be friendship. Also, by holding off, both of you will come to depend on each other.
5. Never tell her how you feel on the first date. That’s a bit of reverse psychology, and frankly, bad common sense. You would not talk to someone you do not care about, right?

You can do many things on the date that will do pretty well for you. Now, if there is something you do not think it will work, then make it quick, and we have the designed in heels for you. Just make sure that you do not do something that will disappoint her. I assure you, you will be able to quickly gain a good impression of the ladies.

The most important thing is have fun. You need to show her a good time, not a monotonous one. She is simply not going to like you if you are so boring. Girls do like surprises, as long as the surprise is appropriate.