Gentlemen let me tell you – while you stand there nodding in approval – out of habit and for lack of better word, you are NOT making yourself independent enough… and you missing out.

Any strong minded woman who has accepted a less than favorable sexual arrangement with an equally mature man is a woman worth keeping. She is partnership minded, and enjoys the skills of an entrepreneur. She has got herself rooted into an acting class, loves to travel, literature, art, and volunteer.

In order for any venture to succeed, there is a plan – but it might not happen immediately. Not surprisingly, many men don’t bother with a plan, and BOOM! Out of nowhere, here they are, putting in place a plan to get a woman.

They attempt to make a connection at our door, believing that in order to do so, we must open the door to intimacy. Unfortunately, many men have figured this one out – while opening the door to intimacy is indeed a beginning point, it’s not an end point.

There is a plan for connection – however, that plan doesn’t happen often. And even when there is a connection, there are some subtle rules which most women never do fully. So when interacting with a woman, it’s really important to recognize what’s going on, but also what won’t work, and why.

I have found that the one thing that both sexes absolutely crave from each other is emotional connection. Only a woman can create this connection, and only a man can make her feel connected.

Men however, often have issues opening up, suffers from anxiety, and so on. I think that’s because early in life, men were taught to suppress their emotions rather than share them. Maybe nurture isn’t the issue either.

I do believe that part of the problem is that men confuse ‘Connectedness’ with ‘Inner connectedness.’

I told a female friend once that all men are~”connected~; all men feel and experience love, sex, passion, intimacy, support, warmth, closeness, purposeful activities, and much more frequently than they realized.

Men experience love and intimacy on several different levels. The process is different for men than it is for women. Unfortunately, they are never taught how to interpersonally connect with women. Men are taught to imagine it through their own ofwired mindsets, experiences, and cultures.

They are also taught that they’re wired to be the initiator/aireachment or ‘contact’ artist, and as such have no choice or choice of where to initiate the meeting with women.

It’s like trying to pick a guaranteed as your theme for the day – when all you are guaranteed is that you will get upset every time you strike out.

When you start reading, you’ll see that every book, every organization, every organizers’ manual is designed to help men be successful at expanding theirdating pool~ but failed. Men get nervous, get weirded out, get really nervous, because they are wired in the wrong way.

Worse, they are also wired to be anxiousand scared every time they may actually do make a connection with a woman. And this anxiety is not helped by pickup-artistryand the like.

The bottom line, it’s like applying for a job – you go to a rig and get it. You apply for a job as a taxi driver – you get scared, you get weirded out and you don’t get the job. Or you get a job – you’re successful and the boss is thrilled. Then you get promoted – you’re a hero. Then you move to the next level – you’re now a partner. Eventually, you get promoted again – you’re now head of production.

How come we don’t promote ourselves appropriately to be successful at love?

The mystery on how to find a partner is rooted in the fact that we are a family of descent looking for a partner to form a family with. Thus, we are14uremediate relatives and are looking for an appropriate partner to interact as a couple with our three billion strong parent species.

We may be beautiful in our own right – beautiful on the outside – beautiful yet still suffer from countless ancientffiti on our conscious.