Women have many different ways of expressing what they want. Most often though guys can become confused as to which way to look for success. Doing things the “wrong” way is a sure-fire way to fail. Knowing how to catch the eye of a particular woman is not only important in finding the woman you’d like to spend your life with, but also in your work and other social activities. Following are some different ways to catch a woman’s eye:

1. Hold your head up high

Believe it or not, the way you hold yourself will say a great deal about how attractive you are to women. Some guys have very low self-esteem. They really don’t think they are good enough to catch a woman’s eye and they have to “impress” by having a big ego. It is hard to have self-confidence when you’re a naturally shy person. You will need to build some self-esteem if you want to be attractive to some women. One way to do this is to hold your head up high. Women are highly attracted to confidence. A man who is confident is sensual. He has warmth to him and a smile on his face. These are qualities that women are strongly drawn to. It doesn’t matter what you look like as long as you feel good about yourself. You can develop a positive attitude, a better style, a new wardrobe, or a new hobby. The way you feel about yourself will be more attractive to women than any single physical characteristic.

2. Go for the eyes

On the opposite end of the scale is the deliberate liar. These guys will do everything they can to create eye contact with a woman. They wardrobe, body language and facial expression will be a hundred questions in their eyes. An honest man doesn’t worry about the product he’s selling so he won’t be caught up in using the same old patterns and selling the same products. A blatant liar doesn’t mind extra payments because he knows that’s what he gets with women. He knows that he has to be “fancy” to get the extra clients. Instead of personality traits, these guys are more interested in knowing the tricks and tips on how to get the girl. Yet even if they’re superficial or non sincere (in the eyes of others) they will still try to make eye contact with a woman. Why? Just to see if you’re like all the other guys on the room and will you buy the product and give her a hundred dollars for free.

3. Talk it slow

Never talk fast or fast motion. Time and again I have seen guys go up to a sexy woman and in 30 seconds have a totally different conversation with her. They’ve talked about marketing 40 years ago, concept four wheels, travel, the dollar store, what a soccer player wears, etc.Talking slowly is important because it shows that you have control of the conversation. It will make the woman want to talk to you again and will get her wondering about your hair or what you’re wearing, etc. If you talk fast, it is like you’re trying to hasten the process of seduction and women don’t like that. It’s hard to think, feel and finish a conversation in a few minutes. No matter what book you’re talking in, the point is to keep it steady and under ten minutes. It’ll still demonstrate that you didn’t have much experience, but this will be all about you in the second hour.

Now there are more ways to seek out a date. I haven’t covered it all in this article, but there is plenty more information on the internet.