If you decide to look into learning how to flirt you will find that it is easier than you may have thought. In some ways the process of flirting is similar to purchasing a library book. When you find an interesting topic to delve into, you will find that you need to be prepared and that many people will say just about anything to prevent you from buying the book. Then in the book you find out the first rule of flirting, which is to be funny. If you can learn how to be funny, you will find that people will listen to you and be very interested in what you have to say.

1. If you want to know the first rule of flirting, you will need to know what you are not. So don’t talk about how wonderful you are. Some degree of randomly talking about how wonderful you are will keep the conversation going for quite a while, but if you go too far you will run out of subjects to talk about.
2. The next thing you need to know about the first rule of flirting is how to listen. The idea is not to let her run your life. You are not supposed to talk about yourself all of the time either. Let her have an opportunity to tell you about herself and ask you questions about you.

When you become genuinely interested in another person, it makes them more confident in talking to you. You can get more personal, but you will run out of topics to talk about unless you do more listening.

3. It’s the approach that is important, but you do not want to use a sleazy or condescending approach. You want to catch her attention and keep it! Be straightforward, but also hold back a little so that you can move forward. Let her know that you are interested without being too obvious about it.
4. Ok, you’ve approached the woman and added a little intrigue. Let her know that you are interested but that you do not want to go overboard. Let her do most of the talking. Just listen for opportunities to get involved in the conversation. After a short period of time it won’t seem that you are talking just to get to her. You will be a much better prospect to her.
5. Be sure that you let her know that you are attracted to her and that you have been a good friend to her. You don’t want to lose her because you are too shy. Let her know that you really have been enjoying yourself getting to know her. She should know whatever you intend on doing with her without having to seclude you from your friends.

There is a knack to flirting and you will find that it comes naturally to you. Then, your attitude and confidence will be your best tool. Most of all, enjoy yourself when you are flirting with women. You will find that the more you do it the easier it becomes. Then when the right woman comes along you can more than likely get her.